{"id":2749,"date":"2017-12-17T07:58:34","date_gmt":"2017-12-17T07:58:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/safeguardinghub.co.uk\/?p=2749"},"modified":"2023-07-28T18:09:25","modified_gmt":"2023-07-28T18:09:25","slug":"missing-people-lifeline-someone-disappears","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/safeguardinghub.co.uk\/missing-people-lifeline-someone-disappears\/","title":{"rendered":"Missing People \u2013 \u2018a lifeline when someone disappears\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s almost Christmas and for many of us in the UK, that means gathering together with our families on Christmas Day, giving and receiving presents, eating way too much food, watching a festive TV programme together and taking part in games we wouldn\u2019t ordinarily play at any other time of the year. Christmas means different things to different people \u2013 happiness, magic, hope and joy to name a few. To some people however, it is the saddest and hardest time of the year, whether they have lost someone through bereavement or that themselves are isolated and alone.<\/p>\n

There are some that will be living with a feeling of \u2018ambiguous loss\u2019 and this is the experience that many families experience when a person they care about goes missing. This term and concept was developed in the 1970\u2019s by Dr Pauline Boss, an American academic and expert in social science. Dr Boss describes ambiguous loss by saying it \u201cdiffers from ordinary loss in that there is no verification of death or no certainty that the person will come back or return to the way they used to be\u201d. <\/em>She calls this \u201cthe most distressful of all losses\u201d <\/em>because there is no closure, no verification or resolution.\u00a0 This is particularly relevant to missing people and Dr Boss identifies that ambiguous loss is where \u201ca person is physically absent yet psychologically present\u201d. <\/em>For families of missing people this \u2018trauma\u2019 is a daily reality, deeply affecting how they cope with their everyday lives.<\/p>\n

Supporting many of those people affected by ambiguous loss are Missing People<\/p>\n

Missing People \u2013 \u201cthe only charity in the UK which is dedicated to bringing missing children and adults back together with their families\u201d. <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Who are Missing People? <\/strong><\/h3>\n

Many of you would have heard of the charity through their appearance earlier this year on Britain\u2019s Got Talent (BGT).\u00a0 They took the competition and country by storm, not only because of their voices, but because of the background stories of many of the singers, parents and relatives of missing people. Some of the people involved were Peter Boxell whose 15-year old son Lee disappeared in Sutton, South London, in 1988, Peter Lawrence whose daughter Claudia went missing in York in 2009, and Rachel Edwards, sister of Manic Street Preachers guitarist Richey Edwards who went missing from a London hotel in early 1995.<\/p>\n

Whilst the choir really put the issue of missing people on the map, it is only a small part of what they are about. Missing People are an award winning independent registered charity sourced by fundraising, donations, partnerships and some government and European Union funding. The charity\u2019s 116 000 helpline services are accredited by The Helplines Association and awarded by Ofcom. This year they were the winners of the \u2018Helpline of the Year Award\u2019.<\/p>\n

The charity has its origins in the high-profile disappearance of estate agent Suzy Lamplugh in Fulham in July 1986. At the time the media highlighted the lack of support services for the families of missing people. This prompted two sisters, Janet Newman OBE and Mary Asprey OBE, to launch a free helpline from a bedroom at their home in East Sheen, south west London. Using volunteers, they began by offering comfort to callers, but soon realised that the volume of families wanting and needing more than telephone support was substantial. In 1992 they took the unselfish and courageous decision to re-mortgage their houses and used the funds to register the new National Missing Persons Helpline (NMPH) as a charity.<\/p>\n

In 1993 they obtained office space and as they secured more funding and publicity they began to expand their services. Initial success came the following year when the murders at 25 Cromwell Street led to an upsurge in calls to the helpline. It was at this point that the police realised that the charity had a part to play in their own investigation and Gloucestershire Constabulary enlisted their help. The charity played a key role, providing details of missing person cases, two of which were later identified as victims of Fred and Rosemary West.<\/p>\n

In 2008 the charity relaunched as \u2018Missing People\u2019s and launched a Runaway Helpline text service for young people. The following year they were allocated their 116 000 number which is a free to use number for both mobiles and landlines. 116 00 is the European missing children hotline number and is currently used in 29 European countries but in the UK the number can also be used by adults.<\/p>\n

The charity\u2019s primary aim is threefold:<\/p>\n